Bob chose me. That's why I can't abandon him. He walked right up to me and basically said, "I trust you." Of course he didn't actually SAY that. He showed it in that way that cats do when they rub against you.
Oh, I'm sure that message started out as, "I'm hungry, and I'm willing to suck up to you to get some special food." But that message soon obviously became, "I trust you." So now what?
